Jain told me that if she were magic, she would have me have another baby and not have strokiness. Uh...
I would love not having strokiness and Robert, who wanted at least one more baby, would be happy! I, on the other hand, felt and still feel very satisfied with three critters. I had even asked my doctor about having my tubes tied right after giving birth. But, it wasn't totally my call so I agreed to not do anything permanent.
Then I had a stroke. I was told that having more babies would pretty much be a death sentence.
So I got my way. It wasn't exactly how I would have chosen but in my life of so many...well...sucky things, I'll take some good results any way I can get them.
Maybe in the next life?